It was my first visit to Varanasi. Sitting in a shop in busy Nichhi Bagh, I was drawn to a funeral procession. Headed by a band playing a religious tune, it had six persons with shaven heads and long, flowing chotis, bearing a corpse on their shoulders. Another 50-odd people followed, chanting, ‘Ram nam satya hai.’
Having lived in Chandigarh all my life, this was an unusual experience for me. Seven funeral processions passed by that shop within half an hour. Aghast, I turned to the shopkeeper, “Pandeji, isn’t the death rate terribly high in Varanasi?” Pande smiled, “All these bodies are not from Varanasi alone. This road leads to a cremation ground which has great significance for all Hindus in the vicinity. It is believed that if you are cremated here, you land directly in heaven.”
“But, Pandeji,” I replied, “what point is it to bring dead bodies over such long distances for the last rites when we know that it is only our good deeds that lead us to heaven.” The inconvenient truth seemed to disturb Pandeji. He shot me a quizzical look and said, “It’s a matter of belief. But I believe that while living in this workaday world, many times we do things that are against the tenets of our faith. Given this, a balance has to be struck so that while living our lives under these pressures we don’t lose sight of our final goal of salvation as enshrined in our shastras.”
He went on, “Holy men in all religions have addressed this issue by creating special ways to dispose of the dead, by categorising a few rivers and mountains as holy, and observing certain rituals for certain occasions. People patronise shrines and darghas in difficult, far-flung regions. People will have to make time to visit them in a spirit of penance.”
He then asked me that if I were to reach the 25th floor of a skyscraper which has stairs on one side and a lift, on the other, what would I have opted for. “Naturally a lift,” I said. “Exactly,” replied Pandeji. “Consider these as lifts to a much-cherished heaven.”
I came back convinced that the long tilak on Pande’s forehead was not for nothing.
Source: in.news.yahoo